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“Love is the only thing we need. Love is our peace. Love is our joy, health, and wealth. Love is our identity.”

Iyanla Vanzant, from In the Meantime: Finding Yourself and the Love You Want

William Martin

“In Perfect Love, the authors guide us beyond our conditioned views of who we are and introduce us to an unconditional view of love and relating that can provide the foundation for a truly human life. In a world where ego conditioning dominates every aspect of our relationships, this book brings a deeper, more authentic, alternative. Perfect Love is a practical, yet profound, addition to the library of the human spirit."

William Martin, author of The Couple's Tao Te Ching

From the Relationship Library

"How to Weather a Relationship Storm"

"The storm is also the perfect time to remember that our partner is a spirit, just as we are. They are not the enemy. They are our Beloved, and the fact that we are having a difficult time together can be minimized when we view each other through that lens—the person I am having a disagreement with is the person I love. We are spirits simply experiencing a storm that will take us to a better place in our relationship." read more

Poetry for Soul Mates

“You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore.
You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days.
Aye, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.
But let there be spaces in your togetherness.
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.”

-Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet

Free E-Class, Perfect Love 101

Course Format and Instructions:

This online class has been designed to provide you with a basic understanding of the revolutionary, new relationship material presented in our book, Perfect Love. It is not intended to take the place of the book itself, but offer a sampling of what is found within its pages. Taking this class will help jumpstart your journey to creating a perfectly loving relationship right now, whether you choose to order the book or not. Our deepest desire is to help you discover the greatest love you have ever known, just as we have.

In the next few pages, you'll explore a series of learning modules. Each module contains Perfect Love principles, suggested readings to support these principles (from the Relationship Library on this site), an easy-to-use technique from the Perfect Love Toolbox to practice (alone or with a partner), and reflection questions to ponder or journal.

The Perfect Love modules are sequential, so it is important that you move through them in order, as the concepts presented build upon each other. Go at your own pace. Practice and take time to reflect. Remember, that the material you will be reading is innovative, so there may be terms and ways of doing things that are unfamiliar to you. That's alright. It may take time for you to become fluent in our Language of Love, and we're here to support you every step of the way.

During this class, you may also want to visit the Perfect Love Support Network on this site to talk with others who are taking the course too. It's very important in the early stages of learning this material to have adequate support. You may have questions you'd like to ask us, so we'll be checking in regularly to address those. There are also helpful FAQs about Perfect Love/Soul Sailing posted there.

So, let's get started! Perfect Love need not elude you any longer!

Perfect Love Module #1

Principle: Perfect Love is real and available to you right now.

Perfect Love is not something to be searched for or achieved. It is truly a state of mind, heart, and soul — a state of being.

Principle: We are Spirit beings having a human experience.

Because we are spiritual beings sourced and rooted in the Divine, we have Perfect Love already. In fact, we are Perfect Love. Perfect Love is the essence of who you are in the highest sense. It is what you experience when you access what we call, your “Spirit self.” This is your true nature.

Principle: As your Spirit self, you are capable of giving and receiving Perfect Love on a regular basis, on earth, with another person.

In fact, it is your birthright and your destiny to do so. This is why we say Perfect Love is available to you right here, right now. It is who you are—naturally. You can live in the everyday world and love another as your “Spirit self.”

The method we have devised to help you access your Spirit self is called “Soul Sailing.” In the next module, you will become more familiar with its principles and techniques.

Recommended Reading from the Relationship Library:

“Looking for Love”  

“Preparing Yourself for Love - For Beginning Soul Sailors”

Reflection Questions:

1. What are the thoughts and feelings which are surfacing as you read the Introductory material presented here?

2. Do you believe that you are Spirit? Why or why not?

3. Considering what you have read thus far, do you believe you are capable of experiencing Perfect Love? What might hold you back from doing so?

click here for Module #2