"Love isn't love until it's unconditional. We're not experiencing who we really are until we experience perfect love."

—Marianne Williamson,
from Return to Love

Sue Patton Thoele

“Anchored in the evolutionary premise that Perfect Love is possible and we    are, indeed, capable of it, authors Jan and Brad Lundy gently and encouragingly help us believe that, Yes! we can, and then show us exactly how to love soulfully, completely and joyfully. This book is a wonderful, hopeful must for all who seek meaningful, fulfilling relationships with themselves and others.”

—Sue Patton Thoele, author of
The Woman's Book of Spirit

From the Relationship Library

“Tapping into the Vibration of Love”

“One way to stay connected to our Spirit selves is to focus on our "vibration." Everything around us vibrates at a particular energetic frequency. As human beings with a higher consciousness (spiritual beings having a human experience), we have the ability to affect, even alter, our vibration with the power of thought. We can choose certain thoughts and feelings. Depending on which thoughts we choose, we can raise or lower our vibration. We can literally choose how good or bad we want to feel! The Love frequency that is God is a very high level of vibration, and one we can tap into..." read more

Reader Review

"Perfect Love explores places we have not been taught to explore. There is a sense of balance and a call to spiritual understanding that most books fail to touch upon."

—Willowbei Eversole

Poetry for Soul Mates

The minute I heard my first love story
I started looking for you, not knowing
how blind that was.

Lovers don't finally meet somewhere
They're in each other all along.

—Rumi

perfect love can be yours. here's how.

For thousands of years now, the ancient wise ones—masters, saints, and yogis of all religions and spiritual persuasions—have known how to access Perfect Love, but rarely was it within reach of the average person. Their approach might take years of study, practice, and personal sacrifice.

Today, we are able to offer you a new, more direct way to access Perfect Love through “Soul Sailing.” It is a natural, organic approach to giving and receiving unconditional love.

We base our Soul Sailing approach on one basic truth:
We are Spirit beings having a human experience.*

If you are a seeker, you may have heard this concept before, even attempted to live this truth on your own. The problem is, no one has ever really taught us how to live in this very physical (and human) universe as spiritual beings. And no one has taught us how to Love as spiritual beings either - until now.

So how do you give and receive Love as a spiritual being? You begin by learning techniques to access your “Spirit self.” Your Spirit self is your true nature, characterized by qualities like generosity, hope, inner peace, joy, and, yes, Love. That's what Soul Sailing can do for you - help you access your Spirit self on a regular basis so you can experience profound Love with another.

learning to love in a brand new way

You see, up until now, we have been trying to give and receive Love through our ego selves. Your ego self is that aspect of your human self which is sourced in fear and all sorts of lower emotions like anger, insecurity, cynicism, control, and, most especially, fear. It's impossible to experience Perfect Love with anyone through the ego. You simply have to look around you to know this to be true. The divorce and infidelity rates continue to rise, our emotional and physical health worsening right along with them. Record numbers of people are taking antidepressants. We remain dissatisfied, for the most part, with our lives and loves. The way we have been living and loving one another is outdated and ineffective. Thankfully, we have now evolved to the point where we can truly choose how we operate in the world—as either our Spirit selves or our ego selves. We can choose the old way or a new way.

perfect love is real and available to you right now.

Our purpose here is to help you awaken to a new way of living and to create the love and peace-filled existence you've been longing for. And, that's why we're so excited YOU'RE here, because if you're still reading these words, our guess is that you're ready to say “YES” to a new way of living, too.

The material you are about to read on this site, and in our book, Perfect Love: How to Find Yours and Make It Last Forever, provides a new road map all of us can follow on our journey to Love. Relationship experts agree. "Perfect Love offers a new paradigm for us to love by,” says Sue Patton Thoele, psychotherapist, and author of Heart Centered Marriage. “I wish Perfect Love had been available when my marriage was young...” Daphne Rose Kingma, “The Love Doctor,” and author of 12 books on love, including the best-selling Finding True Love, refers to it as “a remarkable gift, a book that will instantly take your relationship to the next level.”

We're so confident about the transformative power of this material, that we've chosen to dedicate the rest of our lives to sharing it with everyone we can. We know that Perfect Love can be yours, in fact, anyone who chooses to can experience true love such as this. It is simply a matter of choice, as you will learn.

To get you started on your journey to Perfect Love, we recommend spending some time with us on this informative site that's been created just for you. You may want to begin by reading more about our story, how we discovered Perfect Love, and how it transformed our relationship from ordinary to extraordinary. Take our free e-class, Perfect Love 101, to get more familiar with Soul Sailing principles and techniques and how they can guide you to your Perfect Love. Peruse the Relationship Library to read inspirational articles we've authored on Love. Or visit the Perfect Love Support Network to connect with others like yourself, or to receive compassionate assistance. There's plenty to do here. Sit back, relax, and feel the Love that's coming your way from our hearts to yours. We're so very glad you're here.

If you want to explore further how Perfect Love can transform your life and relationships, including:

• how to bring new love into your life
• techniques to transform an ordinary “relationship” into a “spiritual partnership”
• how to create a rock-solid Foundation upon which everlasting Love can be built

To read the Table of Contents of the book, click here.

To read the Introduction, click here.

To read reviews and endorsements, click here.

If you're really ready to go for the “Big Love” right now, we recommend ordering our book, Perfect Love: How to Find Yours and Make It Last Forever (in either hardcover or e-book format), and plunging right in. Your Perfect Love awaits!

We THANK YOU ahead of time for supporting our mission of bringing an experience of Perfect, unconditional Love to every single person walking this planet.

May we join hands and hearts and live our Perfect Love together!
For when we do, the world will never be the same.

Blessings for peace and Love,
Brad and Jan Lundy