Our Inspirational Story

When we met, we fell deeply in love and were certain because of the intensity of our feelings, we'd found the ideal relationship, complete with high passion and deep romance. But once the honeymoon period wore off, we found ourselves doing the same old things we'd done in our previous relationships - shutting down emotionally, communicating poorly, arguing, building walls of resentment because we were frustrated with our relationship. It seemed that no matter how hard we tried, we couldn't hang onto those blissful feelings we had for one another when we first met. Our relationship seemed destined to fall apart.

But because we wanted True Love so badly, and were willing to do whatever it took to have it, we never gave up, despite hundreds of arguments and many disillusioning moments. Jokingly, we reminded each other of Dick and Liz in the film version of Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf. The pain and drama of our relationship overshadowed any possible joy we might experience. Today, we know it was truly a miracle that we not only stayed together, but thrived, moving into the greatest experience of Love we have ever known.

Despite the hardships, we felt Spirit's presence through it all, urging us on, revealing relationship insights, techniques that kept our Love connection strong, our hearts joined. A passionate desire to eventually arrive at a place of effortless relationship kept us moving forward, along with the possibility that we might be able to help others like ourselves who were struggling with their intimate relationships.

For over five years now, we have been living this new model of relationship - loving one another as our Spirit selves. This has truly transformed every aspect of our lives. Not only is our relationship rock solid, but it is the source of great personal joy and fulfillment. By applying the “Soul Sailing” principles and techniques that were revealed to us, we were able to connect with our Perfect Love, and, ultimately, transform our relationship from an ego-based one to a Spirit-filled one.

This is what our relationship is like today.

	A serene, yet joyous, partnership with much less drama, fewer emotional highs and lows, and fewer arguments.
	We are best friends and we love spending as much time together as possible.
	Our passion is high, our intimacy deep. We remain connected throughout the day, even when apart, spirit-to-spirit, heart-to-heart.
	We have healed our relationship wounds from the past by being a loving, supportive presence to one another.
	We are supreme confidants, soul companions, sharing our individual joys and challenges. Compassionate listening without judgment or interference is our priority.
	True happiness is ours because we know that no matter what we say or do, we will be unconditionally loved.

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We're so grateful to have this opportunity to grow in Love and be Soul Sailing companions to one another. Each day, now, is a celebration of Love for us!

Thankfully, your journey to Perfect Love does not have to be as “boulder strewn” as ours. Though, sometimes, when people hear our story, they doubt that Love like ours could exist for them. We're here to tell you that nothing could be further from the truth. The relationship book we have created, Perfect Love (along with the resources on this site), is the road map we have created to help YOU realize Perfect Love, just as we have, only with fewer bumps in the road. We've done much of the groundwork for you, so your path will be easier to walk.

By applying the Soul Sailing principles we present here and in our book, Perfect Love, you too can experience the greatest love you have ever known. We hope you'll join us. We can't wait to celebrate your Perfect Love with you!

Brad and Jan Lundy celebrate the joy of Perfect Love on their wedding day in Kauai.
(Photo credit: Sara Wall Photography)

To learn more about Brad and Jan Lundy, click here.